Change…PLEASE!!

“Don’t change.” I see this line – or something like it — over and over in  birthday cards, encouragement posts, and yearbooks. And while I understand the sentiment, I don’t like it. Why? Because we should be changing. All the time. I cringe to think what I would be...

Why Read the Bible?

I used to think I should read the Bible because that would make God happy. Like God was a moody teacher: “Do what he wants or he’ll make your life miserable.” But, as I grew in my faith, I started wanting to read my Bible, loving to study it. It is full of Truth. It...

Bring Barney Back?

My children have graduated from PBS Kids, Nick Jr and Playhouse Disney. That’s mostly a good thing. I’m sorry, but Caillou’s voice was SUPER annoying. And one can only answer Dora’s questions so many times. Sometimes,  though, I miss the little kid...

Conflict is Good

“You need more conflict.” This is a note I get every time I turn in a manuscript. I tend to make life too easy for my protagonists. I need a push to add in difficult situations, to create tension. It reflects who I am in real life – a hater of...

Forever 24

15 (that’s fifteen) years ago last night, I went into labor. But no one believed me. Why? Because it was the night before my birthday, and because I was a week before my due date. No way was I having my first child then. But I was! I was having my first child...

Forgiveness

Forgiveness is possibly the hardest of all the commands God gives us Christians. I prefer the easy stuff like “Do not kill.” I’ve got that. But forgive? Oh, man. That one is hard. I have to be honest here – I can enjoy refusing forgiveness. I can delight stewing...